Frienship and Relationship

    Well, we met again with a new theme "Frienship and Relationship". Looks like this is very interesting to talk about. Especially for our young people today. Who now has no friends? I do not think it possible. And today many children who already have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Basically, humans are social beings who are not likely to live alone. So each of us must live with others. This humans' nicknamed "Social Human" which means that no creature can live without friends. Humans have a distinctive character that is the nature of the group is always looking for friends (gregariousness). It is interesting to discuss some more. When viewed in the lives of Indonesia, everything depends. For example, we may not learn well when there is no teacher or can not eat when there is no farmer. Everything is interdependent, in the absence of a consumer society, farmers will not be money for their daily needs. It does look like we can do all the activities themselves.  

Yet if we are careful, we will never actually be alone to do something. There are several types of human relationships. 
There is a relationship between parent and child, there is a relationship between the child and the child, there is a relationship between parents and their parents, and others. But this time we are discussing is the relationship between us as young people with friends. Even then there is a relationship as friends, companions, boyfriens, or girlfriend. The more we are a lot of friends getting easier to do everything. But still, we must have friends in this life. What about teenagers in Europe? glance we would think they have a free life. They are as familiar with the sight of people going out in public. Definitely a lot of people think that European children are all free to do anything. Actually, not because they can live free. It's just our point of view and different learners. Indeed even in times of today's youth, teens prefer with friends, hanging out with friends, rather than with parents. All time-his time there, maybe this time you still have children or friends are concerned with your friends. Later when the time past, teenagers we can separate themselves and divide their time appropriately.  

That's all still in the friendship, how about a boyfriend or girlfriend. We must be more, could share time with friends and a boyfriend or girlfriend. Because otherwise we could have shunned our friends because they can not divide the time. In Europe, teenagers used to hang out with friends. They used to gather together and spend time with just joking, shopping, chatting, or just lunch. Association in Europe is more free than in Indonesia, because Indonesia is still bound to the eastern culture. In Europe they are used to come home at midnight because it was still busy with their world outside, as is being gathered, until the middle of the night to go home or go clubbing. Even in a dating relationship, they also appear to be free. Believe it or not that in European countries, is rarely that a virgin woman. Even for them when age above 16 years is still a virgin is a strange thing. Perhaps it is because freedom is in the can by the European youth, accompanied by the development of such advanced technology. The surprising thing is possible for the people of Indonesia. But in these ages, it also has begun to exist in Indonesia. Lots of teenagers who become pregnant out of wedlock. Some facts say at least 65 percent of students have been educated about sexually transmitted diseases and contraception tool in the class. Nearly 60 percent of students will discuss their sexual experiences with her ​​sex partner. 34 percent of men and 24 percent of women said that their first sexual experience without a plan and sudden. 

 Those are some facts based on the survey in Europe. In this survey, 18 percent of women admitted virgin and 34 percent of the virgin male. Many thought that a plain woman, after having sex if they will proceed to a more serious relationship such as engagement or marriage. But few men who think like that. In addition to sex, they also frequently drink alcoholic beverages. They also often get drunk and driving the vehicle. which as we all know can be dangerous. Maybe because it was carried away with friends, what if they get together they can get drunk until midnight. Britain is a country that has a bad reputation in terms of alcohol and sex addiction under the age.At least 50 percent of participants in Vienna Austria often drunk alcohol and having sex afterwards. This figure is higher than the Venetian Italy (36%), Palma Spain (37%) and Liverpool England (30%). Precentage drug use under the age of 16 years almost evenly in nine countries.  

A study looking at nearly 80,000 15-year-olds in 23 countries found overall teens had been drunk on average two to three times but it was becoming less common in Western countries.Global marketing appears to have succeeded in increasing excessive alcohol consumption among adolescents in Eastern Europe. Once the development of world-access and easy access that can make teens more easily get everything you want. Supervision of the people closest to is very important. Such as from parents, teachers, siblings very instrumental in this development.  

So that the world's rapid progress can be balanced positive and have positive impacts for youth today. Besides today's youth must also be able to divide and choose which ones bear and exemplary and what is wrong and should be shunned. A life free of this age should be a positive thing for us. Keep in mind these things happen not only in Europe, in Indonesia this phenomenon has begun to appear. Many teenagers are affected with the wrong crowd. So choose associations and groups that have a positive impact for us.